I see you when the tired goes deeper than sleep.
Not the kind a nap fixes.
Not the kind coffee touches.
The kind that settles into your bones after nights that never really end. After listening for movement. After waking to confusion. After being on alert even while you’re still.
I see you when your body is upright, but your spirit feels heavy. When rest feels theoretical. When people say, “Try to get some sleep,” and you wonder how.
I see you when you’re tired of being needed every minute. Tired of holding it together. Tired of being strong because there isn’t another option.
If you’re bone-tired today, please know this:
You are not lazy.
You are not failing.
You are responding to an impossible level of demand.
I see you.
And I wish you even a small pocket of rest.
Its an insight the challenges of a caregiver that has never had the words to address this until now. I have lived this with our dad and now our mom. I have many to share this with starting with my siblings.
I’m so thankful that this post brought a sense of understanding and insight. Blessings to you as you walk out this journey with your mother.